Love & Hate Debate

          I think that love at first sight is real for SOME people, but it's not for everybody. The girl looking at the boy might be like, "I have found you mi amour!" but the guy might respond like, "Why tf is she staring at me?" but yeah everybody is different. Um some arranged marriages happen when the couples are like infants but if you're at a REASONABLE age to marry then yes go for it but for the right reasons. Parents should not decide who you marry, because it's your marriage not theirs. I don't always think that you should only marry people who are like you. If both of you are too alike then there are no surprises. Different is good. Like I said earlier, "soul mate" and "perfect someone" are different in the eyes of people with different perspectives. Some people believe it some people don't.

          If someone challenges me to a fight, I don't have to fight. I have a choice too but fighting fire with fire just makes it worse. If my friends have beef with someone, then I do too sometimes. Sometimes it isn't your business so you can't say anything. It is not okay to hate someone just because they are different from you. There is not a thin line between love and hate. There are ranges between love and hate like; like a lot, dislike, really like etc... For some people it is very easy to hate someone, those people either got anger issues or that person did something bad to them.

          I would die for someone I love or at least care about. People who are very compassionate and grieve easily probably would consider killing themselves if someone they loved died. I haven't really been into this position, but I would not kill myself. The reason why you want vengeance is what a person wanting it should ask themselves. If  a person kills someone you love, taking vengeance to them won't bring that person back to life. I don't think that the only appropriate consequence  for killing someone is to be killed yourself is right. We should avoid making the same mistakes made in history like the Hammurabi Code. What if you killed the person on accident? So you should be punished by being killed?  The family of the victim might feel justice but the offense's family might feel vengeful. I don't believe that once a war  is started, it can't stop until there is a winner. It can stop if there is a solution or clarity. Like in Lion King 2 when Kovu and Kiara stopped their parent's war.